I highly suggest reading this blog post. It applies to martial artists as well as the law enforcement personnel that prompted it. I am very grateful to have come across such a resource. Outside the box thinking and addressing “softness” by Kasey Keckeisen.
Understanding that not every person or body is the same and helping to work through that. The love and passion you and your students have. The geekiness we can all be. You allow your students to be their own person.